Wife wants best of both worlds

[neversaydie63]

It sounds to me like you still want this to work and that you still think there is a chance that it may so if that is the case, then sending the note is going to pressure her to make a decision and talk about the R. Again, I am no expert but I know in the book and here on the boards, it says to avoid talking about the R and about serious conversations.

Go on your date with her and just have fun, show her how much fun you are to be around, be positive, look your best and just have fun ---- sometimes they come around! -- Thats what I am hoping for my situation.

NSD