Part of his Felix Ungerness is that I've never done his laundry. So I won't get any effect from that. In the eight years we've been together, he doesn't want me touching his stuff. Lately he won't even eat the food I make him. It's weird.
I have tried agreeing with him - can't remember any big changes, but hey, why not? Working iwth him instead of against him can't hurt.
It's more my internal head trips that I need to work on. I've been alone, but spinning all day with the fear of being criticized for the next five things. I scubbed all day. I worked hard and it won't be noticed. It's crazy.
