You know, Trusting, what would really be interesting is if you DO run into OW...and then you are nice. I think that is a big wakeup call for them.

Since your H now is not happy w/OW, that would be most interesting indeed.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D