This is just another woman who tried it the "hang in there" method with little or no results. When she finally told him she was done. He started the huge turn around. She hasn't been on lately, but he was coming on STRONG the last time she posted. If she stayed strong, then she has a great chance to reconcile and turn her whole relationship around. If she weakens and doesn't allow him to go through a crisis before she lets him back, then she will be disappointed in the results.
Men don't respect women who let them keep having there cake and eating it too. You are showing him that you don't respect yourself enough to not tolerate bad behavior and as a matter of fact will even let him believe that you believe it is YOUR fault.
Not good. Your way of thinking and handling of this doesn't work on most of the men I have ever known in my lifetime. I rarely see a man come back to a woman until she gets tough with him and says with her action. "ENOUGH" I will not be with a man who can't be faitful.
I would suggest a stronger approach and one where the decision is no more in his hands and mind BUT YOURS.
For another example check out RedSoxFan's thread. Same script. He didn't come around UNTIL she let go. Now check out his attitude. He will do ANYTHING to get her back.
