IMO, you showed him the open door. That's all the contact that you should have for now unless there is a dire emergency (like last week). He knows, now it's all his choice what to do about it.
Now, let it go and move forward with your own life regardless of what he chooses. Live for you and your children, not for what you hope he will see you doing. KWIM?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!