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Now c'mon -- that's a completely unfair characterization -- snotty, even.


Okay, so maybe I deserve the spanking. grin

Truth is SP, I find it tough to make a point with you without going to an extreme. This is not to be snotty, it is to offer something more than just collusion...I don't know if you are mis-reading me or if I just am failing to communicate clearly (likely).



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Huh? What? How? Are you sure?

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You're a smart woman, alive -- tell me where to go with that.


Stick your **** in her ***** and tell her to shut the **** up already. shocked

Anyhoo...where do you go? Depends on if you want to prove she's just a psycho-b*tch or get a different result (the latter is a tad scarier I think). I think you need to make a decision here. What do you want? This is just little me here speculating. I know I don't know much about your sitch but it feels you are more in the realm of "here's 101 reasons why I am better off without her and thankfully, she will give me 101 reason more if I continue doing what I'm doing."

Also, you do think she's a sh*tty mom so, there's that.

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Easy...

"Please don't assume for one second I am thinking that.


I didn't mean "where to go with that" literally. I meant in the macro sense of "what do you when this is what you confront?" "Do" being used in an approach / strategic sense, not in the "how do I reply to that specifically" sense.


So, you take the micro and apply it to the macro...you're too bright to not see that. I don't think you want to do it. Just tell me I'm wrong...I don't purport to know, I am offering an opinion.

I'm actually thinking a more succinct approach...

"Nope, you're a fine mother. Just doing what I hope you'll do with me if anything comes up that requires my attention regarding our kids.

Have a great day [you f*cking b*tch].

SP"

Or maybe a little of your awesome humor-

"Hey, chica, why not chill out a little? I just did what I would hope you'd do if something came up regarding the kiddos."

I dunno, seems to me you could play around here a little more and still have boundaries and mojo generating.