"Please don't assume for one second I am thinking that. Those are your words calling yourself that and you thinking for me. If you want to know what I think or feel just ask. I was just being precautious about the medicine."
It almost sounds like she is crying out for you to rescue her from herself. Is one of her LLs WOA?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
"Please don't assume for one second I am thinking that.
I didn't mean "where to go with that" literally. I meant in the macro sense of "what do you when this is what you confront?" "Do" being used in an approach / strategic sense, not in the "how do I reply to that specifically" sense.
Earlier I said that women like a good wrassle with their mates. Somehow though, perhaps your military training is too much for Mrs. SP; she is a sore loser in the wrassle department. Perhaps this is why she kept you so subjugated as a husband. Once she unbound your hands and mouth, it was no longer a fair fight.
Now c'mon -- that's a completely unfair characterization -- snotty, even.
Okay, so maybe I deserve the spanking.
Truth is SP, I find it tough to make a point with you without going to an extreme. This is not to be snotty, it is to offer something more than just collusion...I don't know if you are mis-reading me or if I just am failing to communicate clearly (likely).
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Huh? What? How? Are you sure?
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You're a smart woman, alive -- tell me where to go with that.
Stick your **** in her ***** and tell her to shut the **** up already.
Anyhoo...where do you go? Depends on if you want to prove she's just a psycho-b*tch or get a different result (the latter is a tad scarier I think). I think you need to make a decision here. What do you want? This is just little me here speculating. I know I don't know much about your sitch but it feels you are more in the realm of "here's 101 reasons why I am better off without her and thankfully, she will give me 101 reason more if I continue doing what I'm doing."
Also, you do think she's a sh*tty mom so, there's that.
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"Please don't assume for one second I am thinking that.
I didn't mean "where to go with that" literally. I meant in the macro sense of "what do you when this is what you confront?" "Do" being used in an approach / strategic sense, not in the "how do I reply to that specifically" sense.
So, you take the micro and apply it to the macro...you're too bright to not see that. I don't think you want to do it. Just tell me I'm wrong...I don't purport to know, I am offering an opinion.
I'm actually thinking a more succinct approach...
"Nope, you're a fine mother. Just doing what I hope you'll do with me if anything comes up that requires my attention regarding our kids.
Have a great day [you f*cking b*tch].
SP"
Or maybe a little of your awesome humor-
"Hey, chica, why not chill out a little? I just did what I would hope you'd do if something came up regarding the kiddos."
I dunno, seems to me you could play around here a little more and still have boundaries and mojo generating.
Earlier I said that women like a good wrassle with their mates. Somehow though, perhaps your military training is too much for Mrs. SP; she is a sore loser in the wrassle department. Perhaps this is why she kept you so subjugated as a husband. Once she unbound your hands and mouth, it was no longer a fair fight.
One of my fav military expressions: Never wrestle with a pig, you get a dirty and the pig likes it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I think that she is fighting a huge internal battle. Perhaps part of her realizes that she has passed up the fabulous Mr. SP for what? Maybe her fab new life is not so fab after all without SP?
