Just checking in to see how you're doing. I'm so sorry to hear about the affair.
I hope you are keeping your file updated - print a copy of the screen where he's kissing OW, if you have emails or IMs where he admitted the affair, etc., - print them out and add them to your file. If this does proceed to divorce, you will need them.
Hang in there. You can do it.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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