I have the be the worst DB'er ever. I really felt like I had to tell her my thoughts on the OM, so I did. It was an upsetting conversation, but not mean spirited.
When it was all over, out of the blue I asked her if she wanted to go out on a date. She said yes, but then mentioned as long as there were no expectations but, simply to see if we could re-connect. I asked her if this meant she was going to stop seeing the OM and her reply was she doubted if he would want to continue seeing her if she was dating someone else.
About 10 minutes later she reveresed her decision and said it was not a good idea becuase she did not want to hurt me or be angry again. After further dicussion we decided that we would go on a date but would wait for a couple of weeks to let some of the emotions settle.
When I was leaving she said that she did want to give me the divocre papers to a leasst get them on the docket. After that we kissed, told each other we love one other and I left.
I want to give this date thing a chance and give it my all but to be honest I will be suprised if it happens. I know I am likley setting my self up for disappointment and hurt but to me it is worth the risk. If it does not work I will simply be back emotionally where I am today.
I am not sure how to act for the next couple of weeks...
