he,he... just had to laugh. Fossil as in a rock, not a watch - that would be too personal. I think if I do get one, it will be from the girls? At any rate, yes I think it's time for a db coach. I'm really trying to walk that fine line b/w being nice and the "better" alternative and not breaking the db laws of pursuit etc. As far as schedule, he has been more than accommodating to me - if I have plans, he comes an extra day etc. and the reason this time for the change is work related so I felt like it seemed fair. Thanks for reading, I know we are all facing our own demons.
@Stronger, my prob. with trying to spend more time on his bday is that he'll get that sad, puppy dog look that he misses OW. Remember, in his eyes ... we are just friends. His loyalty is to her. He has been struck by the luv bug and doesn't yet realize how poisonous that bug is. I watched the movie Coraline recently.... so wished I could tell him that he is that little girl and OW is the "other mother" or "other wife/girlfriend/lover" and she will turn into that wretched monster. Good movie, btw.
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
