Well, if you reach out, then you know you tried. And that's very important.
The acknowledgment and apology are probably very important parts of that letter. If he doesn't feel understood and that his viewpoint is respected, you don't got a chance IMO.
Great news on the apt! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. The rental vacancy rate out here is up, so places are offering move-in incentives to get people in. Hopefully that is going on out there to and will work in your favor!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2