Slept well last night thanks to one tiny pill. That seems to have helped me have a better day today.

We texted a few times and even chatted briefly on phone. At one point I made a somewhat racy comment via text. I was admonished, with an "exucse me', but nothing terrible. When she texted "that's not a place we should be right now" I said "sorry - I get that".

I have myself so pumped up over our possible future that I just might not be prepared for the conversation we are to have Sunday. At least, it will keep me in a good mood until then.

What is the right approach when it's time for the R talk?


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.