My fear is that it will either make her resent me, or worse, affirm to her that I will be fine, so it is OK for her to leave.
Are you saying you're ok with her staying only because she thinks you won't be ok? If this is the way you are thinking there is NO WAY you are not projecting this, at least a little...
I know it will sux if she leaves no doubt, BUT you have to get to a point where you WILL be ok either way.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
