Still, I can't help but think we're missing a little something here...
If you figure it out, let me know, and I'll try to fill in the blanks.
As usual, these things get precipitated by the fact that she insists on (mis)reading things I write as personal attacks. This is a life-long tendency, by the way. So much so, in fact, that Fabulous MC#2 insists that WAW sit for individual sessions as the price of admission to couples therapy.
Hmmm...ya, she left you, she's pissed off, she needs therapy. You've been looking, listening, learning all the while and are in a better state of mind. Makes sense.
She insists on (mis)reading...okay, well, that pretty much sums it up. You're impeccable in your communication and she is a b*tch who chooses to mis-read...taken to the extreme of course.
I think you're awesome. I think you've got a good handle on this. AND, I think you are getting or perhaps have been a bit of a one-upper in the communication department. Mojo, self-defense, handling, whatever you wanna call it, you seem to really win any and all intellectual spars. Could just drive a woman crazy (literally)...
One of those, turn on in the beginning characteristics that eventually makes you feel alienated and intellectually inferior.
Regardless. Good. She clearly needs therapy. The WASs scream and yell to get out and then find themselves in a wilderness they never anticipated...the poetic justice I guess...she has to deal with her own sh*t. Better for you.
