It is, but the only problem I have is how do you go about being happy and fun without it seeming forced or even spiteful? I guess I can answer my own question. If it is truly real, if you really are happy and independent, it will not seem forced. My fear is that it will either make her resent me, or worse, affirm to her that I will be fine, so it is OK for her to leave. I know the answer is that then it IS ok for her to leave. I am not there yet.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
