LOL YES! I do have a life, freakin' busy!!! Work, kids, dealing with "the WIFE" who in the beginning of this separation didn't want to look at me, now can't stop being around me even while arguing as much as she can about anything & everything, it's close to stalking but not there yet. Last month getting 20-30 calls (no joke) per day was a little.... much, and that doesn't include text msg's either.
I'm a systems admin too, so when I'm on call there is way too much work to do and way too few of us to do it. Plus I like to have a bit of personal life, going out, hanging out, gym, shopping, making sure I'm the like the "best dad ever", 24 hours in one day just doesn't cut it, I need more time, I used to think the days went by fast, now it feels like the weeks go by fast. Busy, busy, busy - I can't remember the last time I watched TV LOL! Thank god for smartphones with decent keyboards that can browse the net & check mail, I can't see myself living without this handy device.
Long story Short... I am busy. I will read (I promise) what I have missed after you have poured your guts out (scoop them back up when you get a chance, you don't want anyone slipping on them and falling and then suing you for the physical harm you caused them).
Thanks doll.
H has text stalked me since he left (it is finally tapering off). Problem has been getting him to treat me as a person of equal value and not some sitting duck who will spend time with him in the hopes that he will appreciate me (well actually not such a problem since I've stopped engaging and being available). I suppose it is more of a precondition to my being willing to date him.
I'm doing alright, just typing all that history again was a tad grueling...looking forward to your input which will come when the time is right, I'm sure.
