Thanks Mish and Kevin. Both of you made me feel a whole lot better. That has been bothering me since me and my H separated even though I didn't want the separation. I wanted him to stay and get help but he wanted nothing to do with it. So I thought for some reason that this is what I get for getting divorced before.
I know God is forgiving but I was so afraid of breaking those vows all those years ago.
Mish and Kevin,
What do you think about the letter I wrote to H? On Dbusting they tell you not to contact the S but Charlyne says to let the prodical know that they are welcome back. So that is where my confustion is coming from.
