Gucci, Your advice could not have been more timely. I was in the base exchange, checking out and she saw me and tried to corner me. She said, "Are we done?", "Why aren't you answering/returning my calls?" "Are you over me?" Sooooo....I said, "Look, this is not the time or the place however since you're approaching me, I'll tell you, yes I believe we are over and I don't care to be with someone who is so finicky that they don't know what they want from one week to another." (Now the next part was more tricky--remember, I am in the military and I don't want to draw any uneccessary attention to myself that could potentially ruin my career) "I'm talking with someone else right now and want to see how things go with her." I said, "See ya" and turned around and walked away.
That felt pretty good actually. Based on the expression she gave I think I was pretty convincing. Before she approached me, I was talking to a guy I knew in line, and Gucci, I have been listening. I have a great time no matter where I'm at now and I think she saw how I interacted with him. As a matter of fact, I have recieved numerous compliments and have had a lot of attention from females in general based solely on the way I've been acting. LIFE IS GOOD!!! So, we'll see what happens. I actually DON'T want her back right now. And now the shoe is on the other foot.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!