... Assuming, of course, you are a confident male that may wear a bikini?
We don't wear bikinis at the naturist camp but I do have all three kids names in cursive on my left cheek....is that trashy!?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
MRS. SP: Let's just f*cking stipulate that I'm a g*ddam f*cking bitch! You're getting divorced from a f*cking g*ddam c*nt b*tch! You a**hole! I never want to talk to you about anything other than the f*cking kids again! F*ck you! You're lucky to be getting free of me I'm such a f*cking b*tch!" (Click!)
Red-headed lawyers have a hard time losing. O'dog knows this all too well.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
... Assuming, of course, you are a confident male that may wear a bikini?
We don't wear bikinis at the naturist camp but I do have all three kids names in cursive on my left cheek....is that trashy!?
nope. trashy is getting them in cursive on your wrists before your newborn's had their first visit to the pediatrician! Especially if there's a concurrently low tooth-to-tattoo ratio. Ah, the joys of public health.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Still, I can't help but think we're missing a little something here...
If you figure it out, let me know, and I'll try to fill in the blanks.
As usual, these things get precipitated by the fact that she insists on (mis)reading things I write as personal attacks. This is a life-long tendency, by the way. So much so, in fact, that Fabulous MC#2 insists that WAW sit for individual sessions as the price of admission to couples therapy.
Still, I can't help but think we're missing a little something here...
So much so, in fact, that Fabulous MC#2 insists that WAW sit for individual sessions as the price of admission to couples therapy.
Hmm, well, assuming you were ever interested in going back to Fab MC#2 yourself, perhaps doing so only AFTER WAW has done some of her individual sessions is the way to go.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
Still, I can't help but think we're missing a little something here...
If you figure it out, let me know, and I'll try to fill in the blanks.
As usual, these things get precipitated by the fact that she insists on (mis)reading things I write as personal attacks. This is a life-long tendency, by the way. So much so, in fact, that Fabulous MC#2 insists that WAW sit for individual sessions as the price of admission to couples therapy.
Hmmm...ya, she left you, she's pissed off, she needs therapy. You've been looking, listening, learning all the while and are in a better state of mind. Makes sense.
She insists on (mis)reading...okay, well, that pretty much sums it up. You're impeccable in your communication and she is a b*tch who chooses to mis-read...taken to the extreme of course.
I think you're awesome. I think you've got a good handle on this. AND, I think you are getting or perhaps have been a bit of a one-upper in the communication department. Mojo, self-defense, handling, whatever you wanna call it, you seem to really win any and all intellectual spars. Could just drive a woman crazy (literally)...
One of those, turn on in the beginning characteristics that eventually makes you feel alienated and intellectually inferior.
Regardless. Good. She clearly needs therapy. The WASs scream and yell to get out and then find themselves in a wilderness they never anticipated...the poetic justice I guess...she has to deal with her own sh*t. Better for you.
Still, I can't help but think we're missing a little something here...
So much so, in fact, that Fabulous MC#2 insists that WAW sit for individual sessions as the price of admission to couples therapy.
Hmm, well, assuming you were ever interested in going back to Fab MC#2 yourself, perhaps doing so only AFTER WAW has done some of her individual sessions is the way to go.
Yes, indeed, Dia; in fact, that was the price of admission. I'm going, but only on that condition.
She insists on (mis)reading...okay, well, that pretty much sums it up. You're impeccable in your communication and she is a b*tch who chooses to mis-read...taken to the extreme of course.
Now c'mon -- that's a completely unfair characterization -- snotty, even.
Here's a verbatim example. When I went to pick Themselves up at WAW's hotel room the morning of her triathlon, I noticed that she'd stuck our son's medication in a baggie along with the vitamins the kids take. I've always been the one "in charge" of the meds, so I wrote this:
SP: Just FYI, could you be sure to keep THE BOY HIMSELF'S meds in a separate container from their vitamins? I noticed that they were all stuck together today. THE BOY HIMSELF'S meds aren't coated, so I want to avoid the possibility of THE GIRL HERSELF getting exposed, even at that trivial level. Thx.
Here's her verbatim reply:
MRS. SP: Oh, sure, thanks for reminding me, because I'm a stupid f*cking b*tch who wants to poison her daughter.
You're a smart woman, alive -- tell me where to go with that.
