stbxH came and left. Last year he had stayed, put all clothes away, the dirty stuff in the laundry basket etc etc and when I came home everything was ok. This year, he came with the clothes cleaned, didnt enter the apartment as I have told him he is not welcome here anymore and had deposited the CS money in my bank account- usually just gives me the money and seemed pretty much OK.
My kids are all grown up. It's the first time I was away from them for 12 days in their lives and mine.
I'm having a hard time letting go. There, I said it!! K