Okay that is fine. The bishop is just going to offer council then.
I agree that you should apologize. But drop it then. You can't smack someone in the head, apologize, smack them again, and expect them to forgive you.
I had an analogy I used to use.
You have been at this job for a long time. Its starting to wear thin on you, and you are tired of feeling unappreciated, being yelled at, no one noticing you and complimenting you for a job well done.
You decide you have had enough, and you leave.
But then your boss begins to beg you to come back, the office isn't the same without you, NO ONE brews a meaner cup of coffee, the other staff can't read his handwriting.
You have a few choices. Obviously, you can say yeah no. You had your chance. I'm done.
Or you can go back and take a leap of faith.
But because you have longevity with the job, you might want to consider going back. But first, you want to observe a bit and find out what is going to change.
Would you make that decision after only one day? Probably not. And that is just about a job.
Marriage is completely different. For whatever reason, your wife feels as if she has been betrayed, and she wants to quit. You just need to give her time to see if that is what she really wants.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..