As far as the bishop - I didn't ask him to talk to her. He also said he's not going to tell her what to do, but since she's in his congregation, he wants to get both sides of the story. While he said he will tell her that marriage is important and should be saved if at all possible, he is not going to take sides or tell her to reconcile with me, so I don't think it will appear to be underhanded. It also didn't originate with me - he's new (just took over the congregation last Sunday) and heard about it from the old bishop and just wants to hear both sides so he can be aware.


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053