That is true. I don't disagree at all. The first priority was to make sure that she and her kid/kids were safe. I am totally on board with that.
It is unfortunate the path that her first H chose and continues to choose. I'm glad to see you still praying for him. He needs prayers. Do you fast as well?
You are in a very difficult situation. I know the emotions must be just overwhelming you. But remember, God loves you and wants to comfort you if you will allow him to. None of us are perfect. If we were, we wouldn't have needed Jesus to die on the cross for us. Take faith in the Lord and look at his direction and path. He will guide you. Seek him out earnestly.
Do you attend a church somewhere? Do your kids attend with you?
I don't have all the answers. But I know that God does. I know that he is a forgiving and loving God if you will seek to follow him and his will in your life.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...