You told her you didn't want to compete the other day and then recently she told you she wants to maybe date you when she moves in to her new place - you telling her you don't want to compete doesn't register yet fully with her, trust me she asked and she will mention it again - watch for it, it will happen.
Actually, she brought the dating thing before I told her I wouldn't compete. She has touched me in a playful way a couple of tims since I didn't hug her. But for the most part she has been distancing herself as well.
