I don't get why accepting D is a driving force here? What's the right choice for you and does D happening or not happening really have anything to do with it?
My acceptance of D is my secret weapon. I was so terrified and it tempered everything I did and my time with my kids and family and friends.
Now, with that as one option, I am free to be in the moment. Be present, be myself, flourish, take the foggy glasses off and see things for what they are NOW, not the past, not some fantasy, not some prerequisite outcome that I many or not ever achieve. Recognizing your lack of control can take you to rock bottom. I went to that place, kicking and screaming and then, I faced it.
Life is better. I am not glib about divorce, I will never extoll the benefits of divorce. I simply know that I will and must thrive and enjoy my short life no matter what.
It is freedom RSF. And it is attractive. Trust me. My H checked me out from head to toe today and it isn't because he's never seen me look good before. It is because I am alive and vibrant and it intrigues him...
That on a guy is irresistibly hot. Man, I feel like if I was a guy I could work this sh*t so well.
No seriously guys I think someone kidnapped AAK and is posting posing as her.
Keep handling it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
