Originally Posted By: tristan
Originally Posted By: robx
When she mentions dating again and she may very well do that, you tell her that you will be dating, you just don't think it will be with her ;-)


I like that. But I doubt she will ask again after I said I didn't want to compete. She said this a couple of weeks ago.

Originally Posted By: robx
How are you feeling today?


OK. I find myself joking around a bit here and there. I haven't been able to do that for months. Its still hard, but getting a little easier. However, I am guessing that my mood will take another nosedive next week when she actually moves out.


You told her you didn't want to compete the other day and then recently she told you she wants to maybe date you when she moves in to her new place - you telling her you don't want to compete doesn't register yet fully with her, trust me she asked and she will mention it again - watch for it, it will happen.

As for your mood, PMA - positive mental attitude.
Whatever happens, Tristan will survive, Tristan will thrive, Tristan will be great.

Do what works, stop doing what doesn't work.