Someone once explained the whole thing to me, I'll have to find it sometime.
Agreed exact opposite. OM does nothing, I did everything. OM is half bald, I pride my hair. OM dresses like a slob (even in court), I'm business casual everyday. OM expects to be catered to and picked up after, I find it hard to sit down and relax at times. OM sits around and watches TV all day and night, I'm lucky to log more than 5 hours in a week of TV. The list could go on and on....
Dday,
Yeah I think my W's OM had some of those hair plugs put in up front but I can't be 100% sure from the pics I've seen of him. Borderline illiterate from what I can gather, a real dope. Oh but he has an amusing personality. Give me a break. Put me in a clown suit with hair plugs and I'll get the same results if not better. If Elmer Fudd could have a baby with Rain Man, the end result would be my W's OM. Then there is me, rotten H, who is educated, successful, faithful to my W and kids and (with a little work on my tan) could give those Men's Health guys a serious run for their money. Met three of my W's girlfriends from high school two weeks ago, they were checking me out and was definitely getting that approval vibe from them. Got a real good vibe from one in particular. All this in front of my W of course who liked the favorable impression ("Boy isn't she smart/lucky/whatever to have a guy like that") but didn't have the nerve to tell them "yeah that's my H and guess what I really want to $h*tcan his a$$ for dufus".
It just pisses me off to no end. Yeah, when you find that info on the psychology on W's attraction of OM opposite of H let me know.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
