Would love to have had even a nano-second to bust that mojo out! I mean the "-oooo" from my greeting was still, you know, like connected to my mouth by a voice balloon, like in a comic strip, when she Launched The Fleet!
MRS. SP: Let's just f*cking stipulate that I'm a g*ddam f*cking bitch! You're getting divorced from a f*cking g*ddam c*nt b*tch! You a**hole! I never want to talk to you about anything other than the f*cking kids again! F*ck you! You're lucky to be getting free of me I'm such a f*cking b*tch!" (Click!)
Now, SP, you have shocked me! I would have bet mega bucks you would have thought that was hot!
Sorry the little guy had to hear it... Kind of funny he calls it "swears"! Ha!
Email her back... "F*ck Yea!"
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
After the Great Outburst of Pure Honesty, this doesn't surprise me even a little bit.
Boy, is she gonna feel bad when she calms down and realizes that Son heard it all. If she didn't hear him ..... Evil Kett says, make sure she knows somehow.
Gut says: she's fighting with herself right now, not you at all. It might be instructive (or at least, entertaining) to stop trying to be rational at her and basically just start repeating stuff back to her (not in a "I'm going to say everything you say, nyah nyah" way, but more Imago-y -- "So, you're saying that ......fitb".)
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
Now, now, mindfull, my sister. Had she said, "Let's just f*cking stipulate that I'm a g*ddam f*cking bitch who needs you to rip her f*cking clothes off and f*ck her harder than she's ever been f*cked before -- and I'm on my way over, so get the Barry White ready," then yes absolutely -- THAT would have been hot.
Okay -- in a creepy, riot-grrl, kind of way. But still.
o/~ They call me quiet girl, But I'm a riot, yeah...
Don't talk to me about tattoo's! D18 just outed herself to me. YIKES! Can't ground her. (She's moved out for school.) Can't spank her. (She's too heavy.) Can't threaten to take away her phone. (She pays for it.)
Where's the tat goin'? Please tell me it's not bikini line?!?!?!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
If she didn't hear him ..... Evil Kett says, make sure she knows somehow.
Ah, Evil Kett, my sister. We are alike in our evil-ity!
I'd texted her -- we SMS/text for "must know" items -- that Daughter Herself wanted a hot lunch tomorrow, so when she picked up their stuff this morning the lunch box wouldn't be among the goods (the first thing she'd look for, you see, wanting to be organized and whatnot).
Just after that text came Teh Outburst. So I texted again -- (A) Not sure what that had to do with hot lunch and (B) [SON HIMSELF] was on the line @ same time - wanted 2 talk w/u.
OK...obviously hanging out over here is way more fun than hanging out on my thread....I'm switching! :-O
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Now, now, mindfull, my sister. Had she said, "Let's just f*cking stipulate that I'm a g*ddam f*cking bitch who needs you to rip her f*cking clothes off and f*ck her harder than she's ever been f*cked before -- and I'm on my way over, so get the Barry White ready," then yes absolutely -- THAT would have been hot.
Okay -- in a creepy, riot-grrl, kind of way. But still.
(Wait 'till she learns about my tattoo!)
Well, I hate to say it but she clearly needs a spanking and a good pounding.
I mean, all that wasted energy, sheesh.
Is it worth a question of "hey, W, anything specific that was getting your goat yesterday or did you just wanna go off?"
or
"get off"
Jesus, you may be the one man who refers to his stxw as a "psycho-bitch" who is giving an accurate depiction. FYI- they ALL say that! ("all" of course being an exaggeration but really, it is pervasive).
Still, I can't help but think we're missing a little something here...