What to do when H doesn't contact?

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God also hates a man who covers himself with violence.

Malachai 2:15 Has not the LORD made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. [a] So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.

Malachai 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.

God does not expect us to remain in a dangerous situation and certainly does not expect us to keep our children in that kind of atmosphere. Yes, God hates divorce, but he loves us and wants us to be safe. Someone else's bad decisions put you in the situation you were in. You weren't responsible for it.