I am wondering if I should give her what she wants by telling her that I got a new bank account yesterday, telling her that I am taking her name off of the household stuff, asking her how she's planning on working the car, upside-down equity on the house, etc situations.

Kind of a sh*t or get off the pot thing.

Does that make it more real or just make me a jerk?

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.