She just sent me an E-mail. She said she hopes my day is going OK and that she needs a copy of my check stub for paying quarterly taxes (she has a small business).

I typed a response that I hoped her day was OK too and that I would support whatever she felt she had to do. I deleted the second part and just left it at I hoped her day was OK too.

I need to tell her that I accept her decision, but I want to wait until tomorrow. Even that seems like it would come off as nedy today. Like I was saying that just to get her to change her mind.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.