A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

He really likes the 'bohemian hippie chick' look. Gauzy skirts, bracelets, bare feet, loose hair, perfume and in particular, it turns him on when I wear little bells - belled ankle bracelets, a jingly belly-dancer style hip chain, etc.

Here's the rub - he is actively fighting *against* acting on his very obvious physical reaction to me because he is trying to be loyal to OW (hence my Molotov cocktail feelings yesterday).

This is also why he is being hardline about not letting me sleep in the master bed. He was all soft and gooey when we woke up together, including non-verbal "I love yous", and during the night he apparently had a very hard time when my nightgown rode up and exposed a long length of leg and hip to the moonlight.

Edit: Maybe I will do some shopping in the near future.