My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

Here's something else for you RSF....maybe get your mind to slow down and go in a positive directions....Maybe your W is ready to dump this guy. Not because he's a bad person, or she doesn't like him, and maybe not because she plans to get back together with you, but maybe she does. Let's say she has every intention of dumping him, just not yet, because at this point, she is having some fun and it's relaxing and it's a break from reality. But sooner than later and she's preparing for it now, she is going to call it off with him.
Have you ever thought of it that way? She's not with him to punish you, it's just relaxing for her but she knows it's going nowhere and is now getting ready to call things off with him....and IF that's the case, you better leave her alone. Because if you push or complain about him, it's going to annoy her to a point you just push them together.

Yes, yes I can totally see this scenario as a possibility. I don't want to mind read but it is just as probable as all of the bad things I keep thinking about. I just need to find a way to keep myself positive and feel like I'm in control of my self and my part of the process.