So... it's come to this.

[NNP1965]

I read your linked thread S4H, seems we have much in common. Are you in the DC area now? If so we live very near each other too.

I am looking up as much info online as I can find and talking to others I know who have been thourgh the D process. I also bought this book Divorce and the Military II (A Comprehensive Guide for Service Members, Spouses and Attorneys) and plan to take it with me to the L today.

My C thinks things will turn very ugly once my H realizes I am done. i hope not, but I do need to be prepared for that possiblity.