Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
What would your fantasy game plan be?

Fantasy =

Be at the right place at the right time together, talk, cry, hug kiss and make passionate love together like it was the first time again. We had so much passion and fire in our relationship

Real =

She already knows where I stand. Love her, want to reconcile, forgave myself for walking out & PA, moving forward with my life in a positive way.

Now I back off. W gets back on top of her game alone. Full self esteem, owns the world, decides she has it in her to consider reconciling with me. We set up MC and begin with some light dating..easy not heavy. Progress through that. once we're really sure we're moving forward we can start doing more things with kids as family. Have a quiet ceremony to renew our vows. Move back in together with family and never let this happen again.

Last edited by RedSoxFan; 09/02/09 04:32 PM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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