My family is *newly* intact. We were separated for 2 years. And possibly I should be putting quotes around 'intact', but, yeah, we're acting-as-if in the intact department right now. <grin>
Lots of things are different on his side, and on mine. The thing that remains to be seen is whether or not he can take the risk of being vulnerable enough to love me openly and with committment again.
Me, I've already taken the risk, am taking it and will continue to take it for the foreseeable future.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137