Okay, so I guess having expectations just means I'll be disappointed when they don't happen? Is that it?? I'll take any advice, suggestions, anything. I'm having a really sad day, a "memory" day of all the things we used to do together. AND, Labor Day weekend is coming up and we would have been at our cabin enjoying the last weekend of summer by hiking, canoeing, etc. and now that's not going to happen. I'm trying to GAL, today is a HUGE backslide...

Any thoughts?

Me 47
H 42
Married 20 years
no kids
Bomb 5/09


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B