I said to myself, I am going to do this for today: Call him, figure out our plans for the day and end it with "Ok, then I'll see you at home when you're done." And that's what I did. I got to work, called him and said "Hey, what is your deal for this evening?" He laid out his day, including he has his NFL Fantasy Football draft tonight at a local bar/restaurant. I told him "Ok, I'm probably grabbing dinner with Friend, and I'll see you at home when you're done." Long pause. He says "Our house?" I said "Yeah." He said "What are you talking about?" I said "You told me Monday you would stay here on Wednesday." Long pause. I said "How about we stop arguing and do what we say we're going to do, ok?" Long pause. Then he says "Ok." (with a very agreeable tone I might add.)
Then we talked about some money stuff, all normal. I told him I'd call him later. He said Ok, bye Lady.
And for me, I'm going to recommitt to getting my a$$ up to work out in the AM. I've been HORRIBLE about this. And I'm going to read my book, MWD's wrote another good one, I like it a lot. And concentrate on work, tennis, maybe get my scrapbooking going again, been very very bad about it...it's not really the cheapest hobby but I really do love it. And it goes without saying, lots of time with S. He and I snuggled this morning for about 15 mins before we got up. He's very snuggly.
I'm also not engaging him anymore. He wants to work this out, this is his last chance then I'm doing what I want how I want to do it.
But it's odd, he'll want to snuggle, flirt, laugh, mess around and do stuff together, yet he hasn't called off the dogs. Not sure what kind of game he's playing but I am pretty tired.
Fortunately, I'm in a great mood and he will not impact me.
