What are you doing in the visual "here kitty kitty" department?
Before he comes home each night, I refresh my hair and makeup, fresh perfume, lipgloss, change clothes to something pretty, do a bit of spot-tidying around the house and about half the time, there's something savory-smelling in the oven for supper.
He *does* notice. I get comments/compliments all the time that my hair is pretty, I smell good, he likes my shoes, he likes my dress, "oooh, what's for supper?", etc.
Last edited by Dia; 09/02/0904:13 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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