I'm sorry to hear about the S agreement your H is working on Hope. Keep your chin up, you really are off to a good start. I know the changes you are trying to make aren't easy or comfortable, but that will change with time. Once you reach your final destination with these changes you will be amazed at how much stronger and better you will have become. Hopefully your H will eventually notice and that will be the beginning of the end to his nonsense.
Hang in there!
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________