he was back, i think

[K4D]

i will always love him and always soften to a point with him. but too much damage has been done.

Remember what is said on here. That when we finally let go, that is when they start coming home. Could this be that time?

my cousin (we are like sisters) even told me that if i ever thought of taking him back, she would disown me!

This is what kills many M restorations. Other people putting their influences in. Don't listen to other people. I don't know if you are religious or not, but if you are, listen to God, not other people. You may be seeing God starting to work on him now. My W told me to much damage has been done as well. I think that through God, anything and any M can be restored and healed and the damage can be healed.

It just looks like he may be turning a corner now and I would hate to see you give up now when he just might be finally starting to get his head straight. You did say you do have feelings for him. You loved him once. Something about him made you love him and something made him worthy in your mind to marry him and have a child with him. What was it? It can be had again. Don't lose faith. Don't listen to others who would tell you to walk away and tell you he isn't worth it. If he comes back and realizes all he did and becomes better than ever and your M becomes better than ever, imagine the mistake you might be making by not allowing that to happen.

Food for thought,

Kevin