I don't know what they discussed, so for all I know, my W could have told my friend's W that she should slow down on the D effort and see if they have some hope of saving the M.
Yeah, I was going to suggest (as hard as it might be) to just focus on your own stuff and not get so worked up about someone else's stuff.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3