My W had a big revelation Saturday. I thought it was progress and we'd start working on making things better. As part of that, she mentioned how unhappy she'd been and how she's noticed that she hasn't been a good mother lately.

This is probably part of what pushed the ball of the cliff recently. She was able to tell herself that since she is unhappy here, she needs to get away. She'll be happier and it will be better for our son.

I am sure that she will be happier for an exciting short while. I can only hope that after that she will see that she left a man that "only a fool would leave."

I think that the WAS's are just so damn unhappy in general. My W has found a way to focus all of her unhappiness on me. See freaking LOVES everyone else! She will have to face her unhappiness herself once she is out on her own. She won't have me to blame it on anymore.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.