My W is very cold and shut off now, too. She continues listening to all the country music, including the "I'll love you forever" ones. So far our boys don't know what is going on. They are only 6 and 4. I wonder what her reaction to their reaction would be if we did physically split. My 4 year old is very clingy right now, especially to me. When I am home alone with them, he will follow me into any room I go, even if he was sitting watching TV. He will get up and follow me if he sees me leaving the room. When we are all together, he gravitates more to me than her. It might have something to do with her promising to play with them, and then telling them that she can't, she got busy. She isn't a bad mother, but I think there are times when she can't really handle them. I've seen her go from laughing an playing with them to yelling and leaving the room in an instant over something relatively trivial.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
