This was after she had written me a letter saying how she didn't love me, etc. Well, something must have clicked with her, leaving us there having fun.
She dropped a bomb on you and you were a strong, confident and loving man. Playing with his kids, carrying on with his life regardless and smiling and laughing. That is detachment. You will be fine regardless of the outcome.
Then look at her reaction.
Focus back on yourself. Do things that make you happy and fulfilled. Get your mojo back, use some Jedi mind tricks, call on the Holy Spirit and love yourself.
Psalm 40
I waited, waited for the LORD; who bent down and heard my cry, Drew me out of the pit of destruction, out of the mud of the swamp, Set my feet upon rock, steadied my steps, And put a new song in my mouth, a hymn to our God. Many shall look on in awe and they shall trust in the LORD.
Get back on solid rock and sing a new song.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
