OK. I am actually going to go back and defend the book and its authors a little. There was only 1 paragragh on "Growth from Divorce" in a book that is about 300 pages long. The first couple sentences did state that many women analyse and learn how they contributed to the failure of the marriage.
My W received this book while attending a leadership program. She came back saying that she learned that she was focusing too much on her job and neglecting other parts of her life. At that point she really wanted to focus more on the family. She said the leadership program made her realize that. Now obviously she has backtracked a little, but I wouldn't blame it on this book. From what I have read, it is relatively balanced.