and then today i took him to work after we ML twice..and he was cold in the car to me...he did not say love you when he got out of the car..i think it is time for me to mention that he dropped out of law school 4 months ago right after he started and he quit his job of 4 years to go..he blames me bc I could not find a ft job at the time to support the family..he came to me and said he did not want to continue law school..he works a job now that I am pretty sure he hates..so..there is the rest of the story...so again..today on our way to work he was cold distant..i tried to remain upbeat..but my head started swimming wondering if he felt guilty for doing that with me..I just dont know...