Quite frankly the only time I have had success was when W realized what she was losing. But not lately. Something has changed for her. There were times when she has said regardless what her feelings for me were, she still wanted to do some things together. Granted that was months ago, but if I can be her friend again, maybe it will help lead her back. Shouldn't we be friendly, anyway? Also, several times when she has realized how much she was hurting me she made extra efforts at the M. I'm not saying I should break down in front of her, but it injects doubt into the letting her go attitude. Again, though, that hasn't happened for a while, and in fact, sometimes lately it seems like she is intentionally hurting me, maybe as a way to push me away and make it easier to move on. Regardless, I think I am making some progress, albeit small. I am acting "as if" at home, cooking dinner on the grill (which I love) getting ready for the den meetings, etc.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
