I just can't say it enough. This is so surreal. Numb. How are you handling it?
I am in the same place. Numbness is wearing off, but she hasn't moved out yet. I am guessing it will come back then.
I am handling it by doing what my IC and many of the people on this board tell me to do. I especially look at the advice from Robx, Coach, Puppy, and Gucci - they seem to be very respected on these boards and their advice is often collaborated with my IC. It isn't easy, it does not feel right, but at least I feel like I am doing something. And I am also not taking the perspective that I must save my marriage anymore. I just want to feel better. If it saves the marriage - great. If not, at least I will feel good about where I am.
I only listen to christian radio anymore. Not so much for the Jesus stuff, but the hope and faith music is much better to be listening to than the love songs on the other stations given where we are at in life.
