IMO, you did the right thing with the letter. Even if he hits delete and pays no attention to it, at least you got it off your chest and that's what is important. He already knows he's a worm. He's said as much to you. His words and actions caused you doubt yourself, your love, your very sanity.....he deserves whatever he gets.
Trust me, there are many, many things I wish I had said to Gabe once I realized that there was too much damage to fix but I still held my tongue (and continue to) out of fear of 'rocking the boat'. That was really stupid and now so many things have festered in my mind and heart that they have turned to poison. It's very hard to parent with someone that you hold a lot of resentment toward so it's good to let it go!
Hope your afternoon was good and I'm sure you are excited to have your kids back. Enjoy them!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
